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Cabby told my mum not to ‘act smart’ and took a longer route

Monday, January 25th, 2010

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Instead of taking the route his passenger wanted him to take, this taxi driver chose to take a longer route and even had the cheek to tell the passenger not to interfere, says STOMPer Jen.

In an email to STOMP yesterday (Jan 24), the STOMPer says:

“I’m writing on my mum’s behalf to complain about a Comfort taxi driver.

“My mum boarded his taxi on Jan 24, 10.50pm, at Upper East Coast Road, outside Eastern Lagoon condo.

“My mum gave instructions to the taxi driver to take a particular route (a usual route which other taxi drivers take) to our flat at Sengkang, but the taxi driver shouted rudely at my mum and told her not to interfere on which route he was going to take.

“Thereafter, he commented that my mum was ignorant and tried to act smart.

“He took a different and longer route. Throughout the journey, he threatened to force my mum to alight. This was so even when they were travelling along the TPE.

“When the taxi reached our flat at Sengkang, the fare came up to $12.80, which is much higher than the usual $11 (on previous trips).

“My mum refused to pay the extra amount and the taxi driver shouted and told my mum that she should take a bus instead of a taxi. This is the first time my mum encountered such a rude taxi driver.”

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Stabbed in the heart by mum

Saturday, January 16th, 2010

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The teenage girl had been asleep on the upper deck of her double-decker bed for about two hours.

In deep slumber, Eunice Chew Li Xin, 14, would have been oblivious to the horrible fate that her mother had planned for her.

As she slept, her mother, Goh Hai Eng, 52, placed a stool next to the bed and climbed on it to reach the upper deck.

In both her hands was a fruit knife, which she plunged into her daughter’s chest.

The sudden attack woke up Eunice, who opened her eyes to see the knife stuck in her chest. It had penetrated her heart.

Goh hugged her dying daughter, then pulled the knife out and flung it aside.

As Eunice screamed in pain, Goh stepped down, went to the fridge and took out a glass containing a mixture of medicine and an alcoholic soft drink and drank the concoction.

Goh sat on the lower deck of the bed, and when she heard her daughter take her last breath, she stood up and touched Eunice’s face.

The killing took place in their one-room flat on the fifth storey of Block 852, Woodlands Street 83, in the early hours of 19 Mar.

Yesterday, Goh pleaded guilty to one count of manslaughter.

Downward spiral

It was about a year ago that Goh spiralled into depression, resulting in her daughter’s tragic death at her own hands.

The unemployed woman had been undergoing treatment at the Institute of Mental Health (IMH) for bipolar disorder since 1999.

But she stopped taking her medication and failed to go for her regular appointments in October 2008.

The court was not told why.

Early last year, Goh began to feel depressed over her divorce and the sale of her matrimonial flat in Jurong West.

She had divorced her husband – her second and Eunice’s father – in 2007 after an eight-year marriage. Her ex-husband was ordered to pay her $300 in monthly maintenance but he
defaulted on the payments and could not be found.

Constantly worried about money, Goh felt that she and Eunice were a burden to her elder daughter, Ms Ho Lee Hong, 31.

She told Ms Ho, who is from her first marriage which lasted five years, and her elder sister, Ms Goh Hai Hong, that she would kill Eunice and then take her own life.

Goh even asked Eunice how she would like to die.

Worried that her mother’s condition had worsened, Ms Ho called the IMH on 11 Mar to check on her next appointment.

When told that Goh had missed her appointment the day before, she fixed another appointment for the following week and took leave so she could accompany her motherthere.

On 18 Mar, the day of the appointment, Goh refused to go to IMH despite Ms Ho’s persuasion. She insisted she would be fine after taking her medicine.

That afternoon, Goh took three tablets of her prescribed medication and tried to sleep, but couldn’t.

At 7pm, she put 20 tablets in a glass of water and left it on a table. She then left the flat, with thoughts of committing suicide that night swirling in her head.

She withdrew $1,400 from an ATM and bought a pack of cigarettes.

Bought knife

When she walked past a hardware store, she decided to go in.

She saw knives displayed on the rack and bought a fruit knife for $3. After having dinner at a nearby coffee shop, she bought a can of stout and a can of alcoholic soft drink from a
supermarket.

Back home, she put the knife in a kitchen drawer, added the alcoholic soft drink to the glass containing her medicine and went to the living room to watch television.

She then called Ms Goh and said she was not in a good mood. If she died, her sister could take the TV rack and a wooden rack from her flat, she added.

At around 11pm, Eunice, a secondary three student at Pei Cai Secondary, returned home. While the girl showered, Goh drank the can of stout and smoked a cigarette.

When Eunice came out of the bathroom, she complained that the cigarette smoke was smelly and asked her mother to smoke outside the flat. Goh ignored her.

The teenager went to bed at around midnight.

Two hours later, Goh started thinking about her elder daughter and the latter’s baby daughter, then 3 months old, whom she was helping to look after.

Goh grew increasingly worried, as she moped about her age and frailty. She feared that if she fainted and fell while carrying the baby, the latter would die.

She thought about killing herself and Eunice, as she thought that no one would take care of her daughter when she was gone.

She remembered the knife she had bought, took it from the kitchen and carried out her horrific deed. Then she drank the concoction. It was not mentioned whether she was treated for drug overdose.

Shortly afterwards, Goh called her elder daughter and elder sister and told them what she had done.

Ms Ho called the police who turned up at the flat at about 3am. Goh, who was waiting in the flat, let them in.

Eunice, who was found lying face-up, was pronounced dead at 3.06am. Goh was arrested on the spot.

The autopsy report indicated that Eunice died of “acute haemorrhage due to a stab wound of the heart through the chest”.

Goh was suffering from a severe depressive episode of bipolar disorder at the time of the offence, psychiatrist Dr Gwee Kok Peng said in his report.

Dr Gwee wrote that while she was not of unsound mind at the time as she was still aware of the nature and quality of her act, the mental illness did significantly impair her judgment.

Yesterday, Goh sat in the dock, shoulders hunched, head bowed low, as the interpreter read the statement of facts in Mandarin.

No emotion

Aside from a frown that lined her already creased face, the bespectacled woman with grey streaks in her hair showed no emotion during the hearing.

But Goh revealed a different side to her after the court adjourned.

When her granddaughter, now a year old, was carried into court, she broke into a wide grin.

Ms Ho pointed Goh out to the child and kept prompting her to acknowledge her grandma.

Metres away and separated by glass panels, Goh blew kisses at the little girl as a group of about 20 relatives watched from the public gallery.

The case has been adjourned to a date yet to be fixed.

For manslaughter, she can be jailed up to 20 years or for life

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My mum was charged $1,630 for mystery beauty services

Tuesday, December 15th, 2009

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STOMPer Hong Li was stunned when her mother was charged $1,630 by a beauty salon in Ang Mo Kio. The salon apparently couldn’t explain what services were rendered.

Is this ethical? The STOMPer says it is not since her mum had told the salon staff she did not want the services and could not afford them.

The salon staff reportedly used all tactics on the elderly woman and eventually charged her $1,630 for services they could not account for.

In an email dated December 14, STOMPer Hong Li says:

“This incident happened on August 15 when my mum was approached by a girl working in a manicure shop.

“She suggested that my mum try eyebrow embroidery which cost $150.

“My mum agreed and was served by someone named Yuki.

“She said a special type of embroidery was suitable for my mum and asked my mum to top up her package to $750.

“While someone worked on her brow, Yuki started drawing colours on my mum’s lips and suggested she sign up for lips enhancement.

“She told my mum that though the usual price was $900, she would do it at a discount of $600.

“My mum told her she did not want it because she had no money but Yuki started numbing her lips already and got my mum to complete the painful process.

“During the whole incident, my mum expressed many times that she had only $1591.67 in her bank for electrical bills etc.

“However, Yuki persuaded my mum to almost empty her account, leaving only $41.67 inside. She even persuaded her to spend the last $80 in her wallet and instigated my mum to get money from us.

“According to my mum, this is the price breakdown: $150 for eyebrows, $750 for service which Yuki refuse to reveal, $50 for lip or eyebrow gel, $600 for lips enhancement and

$80 (cash) for lip or eyebrow gel.

“A total of $1630 was spent and the receipt was retained by the salon when my mom went back for a touch-up.

“I made a police report and they advised me that I should inform them if I face problems obtaining the receipt from the shop

“True enough, Yuki refused to cooperate and claimed that, my mum had agreed to all services and would not give me the receipt.

“I then asked what service you provided my mum with and she said she could not answer me as she had no receipt or record of the work done.

“The police came down to help out and later, the manager called me and again, told me they did not keep receipts so they could not help me.

“I have written in to CASE.

“I hope the public can beware of this shop. The elderly should be protected from all these unethical sales people.”

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No one helped pregnant mum and toddler stranded in Sydney airport at 4am

Wednesday, November 11th, 2009

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A mother, four months pregnant and travelling with a two-year-old toddler, found herself distraught and helpless at Sydney International Airport when she missed her flight and airport staff refused to help her.

Not only that, they also told her off for having overweight baggage, says the expectant mother’s aunt, who was in Singapore when she received the woman’s call for help.

STOMPer Mariam says that no one bothered to help her pregnant niece out even though she was distressed, having to look after her restless toddler and handle her own luggage.

One of the containers she had checked-in was also broken yet no one came forward to offer assistance.

In an email, the upset Mariam says:

“On October 29, my four-month pregnant niece and her two-year-old child were on QF 320 from Singapore to Sydney Australia, where they were to get a connecting domestic flight to Canberra.

“Before her flight, I advised her to get special assistance but she expressed her doubts of getting proper assistance back there.

“Sadly, true to her fears, she was in an agonising and most unacceptable situation upon arrival at Sydney airport.

“Being a typical Singaporean, she had bought some ready-to-cook gravy. The Styrofoam box holding them broke. Fortunately, the gravy packages was still intact.

“The airport staff were not helpful at all. They even chided her and told her that her box was overweight (it was 21kg when weighed at Singapore airport).

“To add to her anxiety, they refused to help her even though she had already missed her connecting flight.

“Desperate and anxious, she called me at 4:40am Singapore time. I was so distressed as she was crying uncontrollably on the phone.

“Her two-year-old son was without milk and started to get restless. Desperate, I called the Singapore police for assistance.

“At around 8:30am, she called to say that she finally got assistance and was waiting to board her flight to Canberra.

“Fortunately, after a long wait, four customs officers happened to walk by. Thankfully, there are still some humans in Australia. These four kind souls packed her stuff and even helped her push her trolley to the domestic airport.

“I would like to find out who they are. Their kind act deserves to be commended.

“My niece had to see her obstetrician, as a result of the ordeal she had to endure.

“I do not wish to fly to Australia through Sydney nor fly with British airways or Qantas.

“This is not the first time we’ve encountered such cold treatment from Sydney airport staff. I am appalled at services provided at Sydney airport.

“Isn’t the airline responsible for handling the baggage? What are the rights of the passengers? The airport staff should at least perform their duty.

“Is the fear for liability so great, that they would not even assist a person in desperate need? I hope the relevant authorities will look into this matter, and view this incident seriously.”

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